Sean Whitton writes:

ISTM that a combination of the suggestions from Juri and Stefan would
work well. It would be great if you could expand the functionality of
electric-pair-mode to handle these cases.

Yeah, at least support strings and specify if a paren should be expanded after a space (for do not conflict with others parens)(?), I will work on that, at this point it would be to make it similar to smartparens.

Ofc, some built-in major modes should set which parens to use.